Grettings to all those who have contributed to this discussion so far and thank you also to Penelope who was so kind to tell us her honest opinion. I have been reading these comments and thought about them for a while.It is indeed unfortunate that you were given the feeling of not being welcome Penelope. I do deeply regret this, saying this as the moderator and Lead Architect of Versailles. First of all I would like to apologise for this incident. A "bonjour" would have been crucial at least. I usually tend to remind newcomers of that rule in OOC (with brackets) or in IM chat.On the other hand I would like to make some things clear here. I do appreciate that you shared your view on this with all of us. I must admit that I get the impression that you are however vieweing things from a personal point of view. I do not mean to criticize this, its natural. But what we expect each visitor to do - and yes it IS possible to visit Versailles as tourist in OOC - is to read our rules. You wouldn't even have had to read all the rules. In order to make things easier for visitors we have restructured the rules. There are now two sections: General Rules of Conduct and Communiy Guidelines. The latter are only for those who want to participate in the roleplay whereas the first - that are quite short - are meant to be read by all visitors. Our notecards - if read with attention - would have also provided a so called OOC tag. This OOC tag would have let the other roleplayers know that you are just visiting the palace and that you will not roleplay - as a matter of a fact nobody would have been bothered to remind you of our rule in this case. Since you did not do so the courtiers assumed that you had read the rules (both rules of conduct and community guidelines). Thus, they reminded you of that one rule. They might have sound harsh and unfriendly. But I suppose this is one of the major problems of SL, we cannot emote all the time. You see that such issues come from a missing attention to some basic rules of this place.I think I am speaking for all active courtiers if I say that the attitudes towards and opinions about Versailles hown here were uttered by people I have personally never seen at this place. We are in fact a friendly court. Our registered courtiers often come up to me telling me that we gave them a sort of family feeling and that they - some of them are even newbies - were able to find friends here.Yes the rules of Versailles for those who want to roleplay and show up with any title ARE strict. That's because we want to have a historically accurate court. I do not say that other courts are less accurate though. It is our goal to give people roleplaying here a feeling of what the court actually looked like back then. Thats why we also introduced the ranking system. Versailles wasn't all about tea parties and standing in circles and having some nice chats. The family networks were of great importance. We also have an educational goal: You can learn a lot about the history and system of this court here just by living history. Thanks to MariaTheresa we also have historical salons where we have discussions about interesting topics regarding life at court. You also mentionned that many courts experienced a downfall.The reason for that was probably more their lack of interesting ideas that turned their members off. Besides the new French court community is about to celebrate its 1st anniversaryI do not mean to sound harsh. But our rules can be understood easily if they are actually read. It has been a lot of work to simplify them for tourist/OOC visitors, and thus we expect visitors to read them carefully naturally. I actually wonder if you have ever gone to other roleplay places in SL? They are not less strict there.This is the first time that I join such a discussion on the Ning. I regret this site is turning into a place where people pour out their SL disappointment and frustration. Discussions like "What I actually always wanted to say before I quit" are followed by defaming messages about members of other communities. Wouldnt it be more sensible to talk about such issues inworld? For instance an IM is quicker and less counter productive.Tahnk you for your attention. If there are any things you would like to say. Please just send me an IM.